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A LOLcat Perspective on Purr-nography

Marcat LOLliams iz in ur porn stash, hazzing opinions, taking catnaps, and chasing shiny spots. O hai, Readerz!! I hurdz dat some peepl tinkz teh pikshurz of puss-z gives deh tomcatz dain bramage, or...

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A Brief History of Porn

Erotic art has existed throughout human history. (Even before the internet.) Our society has notoriously never been able to define the precise edges of what we mean by pornography, inevitably falling...

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Fear the Towel

What goes down when the towel goes up at male strip clubs? I have always thought there are two types of men: those who look at porn and those who lie about looking at porn. In fairness, I suppose...

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How to (Not) Become a Male Pornstar

 Ever watched porn and thought, ‘I could do this, easy’? I played a clip with this guy, who I now know is Peter North, double-penetrating a woman I had searched for on the “vintage” site: Sarah Young—a...

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Our Porn, Ourselves

Charlie Glickman maps the sexist anti-porn arguments of radical feminist Robert Jensen. I recently attended a lecture by Robert Jensen, noted radical feminist,  anti-pornography activist, and one of...

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Pornography Ended My Marriage

Is porn a good thing? It was for me because it helped me to end a long-term, committed relationship. He was a lover of soft porn and it bothered me. I wanted him to bring that energy to me and our...

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Confessions of a Recovered Porn Addict

To prepare myself for writing today I watched some Internet porn. I felt it would help the spirit of this article if I had re-engaged with my lustier side. To get to the movie I went to a website and...

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Would the Buddha Look at Porn?

On the question of porn, Buddhist American Keith Andresen is torn between culture and faith. — As an American man, I have been hardwired to watch porn. As a Buddhist, I do not watch porn. A few years...

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The Utility of Violent Porn

Under what circumstances is it acceptable to simulate non-consensual or violent sex? Defining porn Everyone has their own images of what porn is, their own definitions, and, it seems, objections to...

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Why We Crave Porn

Although we treat porn as a commodity, it is actually a deeply desired human interaction. Porn exists and it will continue to be used heavily in Western society. Why? Like other cultural products that...

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My Husband Live-Chats with Porn Girls

Watching porn is one thing. Live -chatting with sex workers is another. Dear Sexes: My husband watches porn which is fine—that really doesn’t bother me—but what bothers me is when he live chats with...

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The Myth of One-Size-Fits-All Sex

Sexual instruction manuals perpetuate the notion that, despite the apparent diversity of ways to have sex, there’s just one right way for men to be lovers. I enjoy sex shops. I’m always amazed by the...

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Philip Werner Talks Vaginas, Nakedness & Body Image

The taboos around our bodies, and around the vagina, in particular, allow shame to flourish. Could embracing the vagina eradicate sexual violence? Taboos are made to be broken and the taboo around...

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Real Men Competing With Porn Stars?

What happens when men’s ideas about sex and intimacy are formed while watching porn? We should not ignore the effects porn can have on a man’s self-image. I knew a man who was unconfident because his...

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This Just In: Men Watch Porn

Not all of them, but 88%—along with 55% of women. And that’s OK. — As a woman working in the divorce arena, I am privy to lots of direct information on the private feelings of spouses as they relate...

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The Lonely Drug: You Know it When You See it

Is it really a lonely drug? Maybe it’s time for a little more research. ___ “I shall not today attempt further to define the kinds of material I understand to be embraced within that shorthand...

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Viewer Beware—The Destructive Allure of Porn While Married

Embed from Getty Images — While not passing judgment on porn, at least from a religious point of view, I’ve seen first hand that it can cause serious problems in a relationship. Work on keeping your...

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I Wish I’d Never Seen a Naked Woman: Portrait of an Addict, Part 1

Embed from Getty Images — I was ushered into pornography the way most young men are—in secret. I was working at a camp in Colorado after my freshman year of high school. Another guy, Brent from...

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Male Stereotype Number 17: Men Like Porn

I wish I could say it all starts in college, but it typically starts even sooner among men: the infamous pornography craze. Throughout my adolescence, watching porn was discussed openly with little to...

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Is Porn Ruining Your Relationship, With Yourself?

— More and more couples are seeing coaches for porn related issues and it has become a large contributing factor in divorce. A 2016 study presented at the American Sociological Association found that...

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